Archive for June, 2006

This Isn’t Good News

Posted in Personal on June 24, 2006 by Queen Ebong

I came online this afternoon to make a few changes on my forum 9ja4u and I noticed there is a problem and too bad for me I dont know where the problem is from. :(

I also visited the forum Conversecity where I am an active member and I noticed they have the same problem with my forum and I know this is basically because Conversecity is my host. :(

I really do hope the problem will be rectified soon. :(

To all the esteem members of the forum, I will get back to you all when the forum is back online

Thanks for your understanding :)

My Dear Mother

Posted in Miscellaneous on June 23, 2006 by Queen Ebong

I know today is not Mother’s day but I woke this morning with some thoughts in my head and after careful consideration, it has led me to making this post.

Most times I wonder what life would have been like if I was without a mother, hard I know for she wont be there to comfort me in times of pain if I had lost her and greatful I am to God for sparing her life for me till today.

Difficult times she has gone through for me and I know its for the best, the best daughter I havent been becaused I have failed to reason.

To the the woman who suffered for my well being, toiled day and night so I can be something in future, to my Mother Mrs Ekaete Umo, I say a big Thank You and may the good hands on our Lord continually bless and reward you.

I know you are out there somewhere reading this.

I LOVE YOU MUM

The Disabled And Their Rights

Posted in The World At Large on June 16, 2006 by Queen Ebong

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I was inspired to write about the disabled today because of what I saw sometime ago

It was a man whose legs have been amputated and he was left to wander about homeless with no one to cater for him and probably he had no family. He came around begging for alms and someone made a statement which I still dont think was necessary at that moment. He said (I quote) You wont get away from here, that is how you people will all come and beg, when there is crisis, you will all suddenly develop legs and hands and eyes to burn people’s houses and kill innocent souls”

Those words keep ringing bells in my brains and I honestly dont know what to say about what that young man said but here is my 2 cents

I know it is believed in Nigeria that the Hausa’s are tribalistic when it comes to crisis. People believe that giving alms to these poor disabled beggers is not wise because when crisis comes they will suddenly become and do whatever that pleases them. Though I have never seen happen, I have heard people say it has happened in places they know and sometimes to people they have come across in their lives.

These people are littered everywhere in the country and some of them are educated but probably sometime in their live something drastic happened to them for example, an accident.

Some disabled people are people with vast knowledge, they are not able to impact the knowledge of what they know to others because they have not been given a chance to. The disabled could be a Governor, President or whatever he want to be in life. But in our society today, they are regarded as invalids, idle minds. But the question here is “ARE THEY REALLY IDLE MINDS”?

The disabled children and youths in our society today barely get the education they desire because they cant be admitted into a school because of their status, they cant work to pay their fees because they wont be a given a job even though they have the qualification. If only they were given a chance to prove themselves.

There is really not much difference between a disabled and a non-disabled person, we are both equal in GOD’S eye. When GOD created the world, he didnt say the “Abled shall rule over the Disabled”, he created this world to be one in TRUTH, LOVE, PEACE, and UNITY. But our leaders today have decieded to do what they like because they feel they own the universe now. They forget GOD is above all.

These disabled people have rights, equal rights with the abled. They deserve love and care, they deserve the basic ammenities thats in a community.

Lets show love and care to the disabled and you will find out how blessed your life can be.

Be positive about them

Be postive about them and you will see they can also CHANGE LIVES

What Goes Around Comes Back Around…..

Posted in Personal on June 13, 2006 by Queen Ebong

I was browsing through some weblogs (Mostly Nigerian weblogs) and I came across this blog named SUCCESSPOST . What attracted me to this blog was first of all the name.

As I was browsing through this blog I also came across a post I find very interesting and educative WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND

What I learnt from this is post is we should learn to be of help to others that are in need, you never can tell where you both will meet in future.

This is a must read for everyone. Visit SUCCESSPOST today.

Tagging…….

Posted in Personal on June 12, 2006 by Queen Ebong

I was tagged by Azuka and I have decieded to give it a trial

Accent — I’m proudly Nigerian

Booze — I don’t drink

Chore I hate — Tidying up someone else’s scattered bedroom

Dogs / Cats — Cats are neat and cute but I love dogs too.

Essential Electronics — I love phones, Ipod(which I dont have) and a laptop(which I also dont have)

Favourite Perfume — I simply use something thats sweet

Gold / Silver — None.

Hometown — Akwa Ibom State

Insomnia — I have it often

Job Title — Student

Kids — I love children. I intend to have as many as I can take care of when am ready.

Living arrangements — I have relatives every where, I live where I think I can cope

Most admired trait - We are all pretty in my family :)

Number of sexual partners — Meaning???

Overnight hospital stays — NEVER!!!

Phobia — Heights, snakes

Quote — “Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game”, “Though I may be clueless,
though I may, yet I am a genius”

Religion — Christian

Siblings — Nine kids all together. I am the last. (5girls, 4 boys)

Time I usually wake — Depends on what I have to do the following day.

Unusual talent — I dont understand

Vegetable I refuse to eat — Lettuce, cabbage and some others

Worst habit — I tend to act like a child most times which I hate

X-rays — NEVER!!!

Yummy foods I make — All my food is yummy. :)

Zodiac sign — Taurus

Phew! finally

I tag Kisses and Roses , Commonground , Peter Inyang , Study Abroad , Internet Marketing Info , Web Hosting Tips and Diamond Jewelry Guide ;)

Let the tagging begin :)

Educating The Girl Child

Posted in The World At Large on June 8, 2006 by Queen Ebong

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Some people believe educating the girl child is completely useless and unreasonable, they believe its waste of time and money. They think a girls place is in the kitchen cooking and giving birth to children.

The girl child suffers alot of discrimination as she grows from childhood into adulthood. She is denied alot of fundamental needs and rights and in such harmful attitudes and practices as a preference for sons, early marriage, female genital mutilation, domestic abuse, incest, sexual exploitation, discrimination, less food and less access to education.

In many countries, both developed and developing, the status of girls is significantly worse than that of boys, the Fourth World Conference on Women, held in Beijing in 1995, identified the persistent discrimination against the girl child and the violation of her rights as one of the 12 critical areas of concern requiring urgent attention by governments and the international community.

Overall, girls’ school attendance still lags severely behind that of boys. One of the major reasons why so many girls do not attend school is because of their workload, both within and outside the household. Daughters are often kept at home to help the family because the social and economic value of educating girls is not recognized. It is a little known fact that among the world’s exploited child workers, girls outnumber boys.
Without access to education, girls are denied the knowledge and skills needed to advance their status. By educating girls, societies stand to gain economically. In addition, educated mothers usually have smaller families, with healthier and better-educated children.

Girls are often treated as inferior to boys, both within the home and by society-at-large. They are socialized to put themselves last, which in turn undermines their self-esteem and their ability to reach their full potential as human beings.

When a girl is prevented from going to school or is too exhausted to pay attention in class because of her workload at home, she is being denied her right to education. When a girl carries the bulk of responsibility for the housework while her brother studies, plays or attends to his interests and hobbies, she is being discriminated against.

girl child

Some parents need to see beyond their children, they need to realise that educating the girl child. They need to realise that educating their girl child is not a worthless effort.

Educating the girl child is important, they shouldnt be seen as inferiors and they shouldnt be regarded as minors in the society. They are also as relevant as the male child.

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Convey

Posted in Personal on June 6, 2006 by Queen Ebong

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This is one book I find very useful and interesting. I strongly recommend this book to everyone.

At the moment I have a copy of this book and it was given to me as my birthday gift and I am proud to say its the best gift I recieved during that period.

I am still reading the book and I will post my comments later when I am done reading it.

If you dont have this book and you dont know where to get it, simply CLICK HERE and HERE

In those links you will find some useful information on this book.